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Before You Call It Procrastination, Ask What It Is Doing for You It was about 4:30 in the morning, and I was walking through the haze when a thought arrived: Maybe you are not procrastinating. Maybe it does not matter enough yet. I still think that can be true. But it is only one possibility. Sometimes the task matters deeply, and we still cannot reach it because we are exhausted, overwhelmed, afraid of doing it badly, unsure what to decide, or desperate to feel some control

This week I opened Wix to make a change to my website. It was a change I had made before. But I had already been working for hours, making decisions, fixing pages, and carrying far too many open tabs in my head. I knew where the settings were. I knew what I was trying to accomplish. I had successfully navigated the same general territory on another page. And suddenly I was staring at the screen as though Wix had been purchased overnight by NASA. Where did the button go? Why i

Most of my sessions happen remotely. That can mean a live phone or Zoom appointment where we are together throughout the session. It can also mean a non-live remote session, where you send me what you would like explored, permit me to proceed, and receive detailed notes afterward. Both follow the same basic principle: we begin with what matters to you. Here is what that process actually looks like.Two Ways to Meet Remotely: During a live phone or Zoom session, we are connec